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Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:39 pm  |
Uh-oh.
Moodiness is abuse. If a partner shuts down, with no word, it's a power trip (IMO) and a giant red flag.
A mature, respectful partner will AT LEAST say "I can't talk about it right now, I'll let you know when I can, I promise."
What ever he's cranky about, it's not okay to take it out on you. If he is cranky about YOU, then his job as your partner is to let you know what is up -- by talking or writing.
I do not understand people who think they can treat loved ones however they want. NO. Charity begins at home. Love is an action. If you love me, treat me lovingly. My standing by you does not give you license to kick me around when you're blue. Target your anger, solve the problem, keep me posted.
Read: Grow. Up. |
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Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:58 am |
i agree just because your cormitted to someone doesnt mean its ok to repetively abuse the meaning love by being a moody s*** all the time and taking it out on u!
theres a thin line between, being with and going throuhh the tough times together and receiving abouse just because and, actually mentaly tormentibg/abusig the realtionship.
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Tue May 15, 2012 11:17 am |
| Although some men are cantakerous by nature, others who are not who become moody, withdrawn, irritable & anxious - could possibly be experiencing a drop in testosterone. Changes in medications, poor diet habits, alcohol consumption, lack of sleep, contribute to mood swings. I have a friend who gives testerone shots at a clinic, she says many of these men make it clear that they do not want their wives to know about their shots! |
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Thu May 17, 2012 6:50 am |
| Husband was on ADs for 20 years and became so withdrawn and moody. I reached the end of my tether, got him to titrate down and off the ADs and put him onto 7-Keto DHEA. What a difference! His energy level is up, he's fun to be around and best of all, his snide comments to me and everyone else who got within 1-foot of him, are no more. Even the dog likes him again! |
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