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Fri Jan 07, 2005 2:06 am  |
I wonder if I am going to get any response to this....
I always wondered about this cos I think sexy means different things to different people and different characteristics appeal to different people. I am just wondering if we can distil all our responses and get some common traits.
Sorry, I haven't thought through what makes a woman sexy yet - I'll be back. Meanwhile, if you care to comment...
Cheers
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:08 am |
| I think what makes a women sexy is zest for life, a willingness to have fun. When a woman is having fun, laughing etc they just shine. |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 5:10 am |
To me, sexiness isn't about physical beauty or characteristics. It's about how she carries herself, so here's what I find sexy about women -- no, I'm not a lesbian but I can appreciate a beautiful, sexy woman!
1) Self-confidence; and
2) Ability to laugh and not take herself too seriously.
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Mabsy
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:00 am |
Yep, more of the same:
-self-confident (although too much can be bad!)
-fun loving
-friendly
There is something else that I can't quite put my finger on sometimes - I think it has something to do with movement. A woman could be all of the things above and if she's a total clutz and drops things etc then to me that's not really sexy. Not quite sure how to describe that, there's more to it than that but I can't really articulate it.... |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:12 am |
| Mabsy wrote: |
| There is something else that I can't quite put my finger on sometimes - I think it has something to do with movement. A woman could be all of the things above and if she's a total clutz and drops things etc then to me that's not really sexy. Not quite sure how to describe that, there's more to it than that but I can't really articulate it.... |
How about grace? |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:13 am |
| carekate wrote: |
| How about grace? |
Ding! That's it! Thank you!  |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 8:47 am |
I quite like a nice backside as well  |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 9:37 am |
A J-Lo fan, are you?  |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 11:05 am |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 11:55 am |
Had to get Mr. Winnie's view point on this. Now we do come from a different generation then most of you. This is what he said:
Smile
poise
gentleness
legs (at one time I had great legs  ) |
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 11:59 am |
| Mabsy wrote: |
| There is something else that I can't quite put my finger on sometimes - I think it has something to do with movement. A woman could be all of the things above and if she's a total clutz and drops things etc then to me that's not really sexy. Not quite sure how to describe that, there's more to it than that but I can't really articulate it.... |
Heheh....What a perfect description of me!
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Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:57 pm |
I spent some time pondering about this yesterday.
I agree that part of it is the movement - how the woman carries herself
Another thing is in her eyes - eyes gives much power of suggestion and invitation. A pair of knowing and emotive eyes is very sexy
And yes, Guapagirl, a firm rear helps 
Cheers
Jenny |
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Sat Jan 08, 2005 12:31 pm |
So true...self confidence, kindness, genuineness, the ability to laugh at themselves, and a sense of humor.
There's also something sexy about certain women's necklines - I wish I had an elegant, sexy neck. I do know that when my husband comes up from behind and nuzzles mine, even fourteen years of marriage later, it sends little shivers up my spine!
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Sun Jan 09, 2005 7:52 am |
I agree, sexiness is all in the mind.
Some women are not even attractive in a classical sense when you really analyse them, but they carry off sexiness perfectly - it's self-belief.
I think (and many will disagree) that Nigella Lawson is the perfect example. Nearly all men seem to drool over her, but when you look at her features they're not all that special. Looks too similar to her father for my tastes.
But she thinks sexy and moves sexy. |
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Mon Jan 10, 2005 4:44 pm |
| I noticed that my hubby seemed to take more interest in Nigella Lawson's cookery programmes! Think its all that suggestive finger licking! |
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Mon Jan 10, 2005 7:33 pm |
This is funny because I just talked about this with someone not to long ago.
It is being confident and cool. Too many woman are always harping and being emotional about the little things about themselves. They do not realize their smile lights up a room. When woman look someone in the eye and smile and you know its genuine that is sexy.
Being kind of arrogant and cocky sarcastic like a guy is also pretty sexy.
What is not sexy is lying or being crazy insecure. No reason to be. Guys truly are not looking for perfect as much as cool to hang out with and attractive. |
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Tue Jan 11, 2005 2:44 am |
What seems to be the agreement is that sexiness is more what goes on in the woman's mind and how that translates to actions and words rather than physical attributes. I wish there's a book called "Dummy's Guide to Sexiness" - then maybe clueless me will fare better 
Jenny |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 1:54 pm |
I guess :
Smile, fun, and frienly
Oh ~ of coz with a good skin haha!!
(Adding to my comment, my boyfriend said "Cooking Skill"!! which i wish i have) |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 3:56 pm |
Lol, this is such a fun thread!
From what I've squeezed out of my male friends:
- Intelligence
- Self-confidence (and humour)
- Natural, understated beauty: grace, healthy hair, healthy skin, expressive eyes, generous smiles...
- Culinary skills (food is still the way...)
- Loves hockey!! Maybe because I'm Canadian.
Most impressive to me was this: they love a girl that has a healthy enjoyment of food. It's so refreshing for them compared to eating with someone that picks nonchalantly at their plate and gets terrorized by fat. |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 4:10 pm |
My boyfriend says there's 2 things about me that'll keep him mine forever..
1) My butt
2) My cooking |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 4:15 pm |
| Hahaha, that's an on-going joke between my boyfriend and I. |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 4:29 pm |
| is he an assman too? I loved that seinfeld. I wasn't fond of that show..but loved when krammer was the assman. |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 4:37 pm |
I never liked Seinfield so I missed that one. But an assman indeed. lol
Oh, and it's also all in the "sway" of the hips. Apparently when done right, the poor boys get mezzzzmerized.... *wiggles fingers* |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 4:41 pm |
| my boyfriend calls it the bum-dance. It's turned him into a real spooner. |
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Thu Jan 20, 2005 5:40 pm |
| I have just been corrected. He is also a legman; "it's all in the package". |
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