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Sat Jun 03, 2006 10:16 pm  |
Also, not to be too nosy, but I've never heard of a cell phone allowing only outgoing calls. Maybe that it the enginering/technical side of me coming out, but that strikes me as very odd. I had a room-mate in college once who's boyfriend told her that he couldn't call her because the phone company accidently cut his long distance line...
If it were me, I would be concerned that the phone is turned off (to be unreachable) or my numbers are being sent to voicemail. |
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Sun Jun 04, 2006 10:14 am |
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Also, not to be too nosy, but I've never heard of a cell phone allowing only outgoing calls. Maybe that it the enginering/technical side of me coming out, but that strikes me as very odd. I had a room-mate in college once who's boyfriend told her that he couldn't call her because the phone company accidently cut his long distance line...
If it were me, I would be concerned that the phone is turned off (to be unreachable) or my numbers are being sent to voicemail. |
Well the cell phone he is using at the moment is not his. I could call it but it will just direct me to his dad's cell phone, and his dad will pick up. So he is the only one who can call me. He should be getting his old cell phone back after it is fixed though. |
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Mon Jun 05, 2006 2:31 am |
OK, going with the "benefit of the doubt side" (thought that crabs idea got me thinking, "aha")
IF he was with buddies till 2am and presumably drinking.. any chance that THEY shaved him? I have had a friend whose SO turned up home shaved and could (would) not explain.. turns out he was embarassed cuz his buddies did it to him when he was drunk sleeping... |
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Fri Jun 09, 2006 4:19 pm |
In total agreement with everything Anna said.
If you decide you can't leave him because it would "hurt too much" or because you "really really love this guy" some of the reasons I've heard women say for staying. Realize this, you will always be with a man who will cheat on you. You get to live forever with that pain. AND he'll blame you and you will believe it.
Or, you can face the pain which will last a few weeks or a month or two. (much less than a life time  ) Some day you will look back on this relationship and say, "What was I doing with that boy". From what you described, he is very much an emotional child. |
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Fri Jun 09, 2006 7:04 pm |
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OK, going with the "benefit of the doubt side" (thought that crabs idea got me thinking, "aha")
IF he was with buddies till 2am and presumably drinking.. any chance that THEY shaved him? I have had a friend whose SO turned up home shaved and could (would) not explain.. turns out he was embarassed cuz his buddies did it to him when he was drunk sleeping... |
LOL - I was wondering this too earlier! |
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Fri Jun 09, 2006 7:50 pm |
thanks you guys for being so understanding. It's been a week now and i havent seen him, i'm doing better. It's his bday today and i'm not sharing it or doing anything special for him. I'll be okay  |
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Sat Jun 10, 2006 2:13 am |
you're a strong person, you can be really proud of you !
there will be worse days and better days and you have to try to keep you busy the next few days/weeks. you will see : there is lots of sunshine again, and there are also nice boys out there, they are able&willing to respect and love you. don't hurry, take your time, enjoy the life. before i met the man who's my hb today i was a very happy single with lots of work, friends, travelling, theatere, concerts, books, sports - so when i met him i had to think about for longer if i really want to change this wonderful life to one with eventual conflicts. i'm happy now i did but i'm thankful for every moment of my very full single life in the past.
take care & keep posting!
l.,
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